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We're having a party. You're not invited.

The world's first premium disinvitation service. Elegant stationery for the people you'd rather not see, at the events you'd rather they didn't attend.

Ships to you, never to them. The courage part is still your job.
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How it works

Three easy steps to fewer guests.

You know when friends throw a party and you can't tell if the invite got lost or you just weren't on the list? Disvite removes the guesswork. Official, unmistakable, beautifully printed.

1

Choose your grievance

Ex, in-law, coworker, that one cousin. Pick an occasion and a tone, from "politely frosty" to "carved in stone."

2

Pick your stationery

Cotton cardstock, gold foil, black-edged mourning cards, or a handwritten note sealed in wax. Petty has never looked so expensive.

3

We ship it to you

Hand it over, frame it, or keep it in a drawer and feel better. What happens next is between you and your therapist.

Occasions

A disvite for every life event.

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Weddings
"Save the date. Just not for you."

For the ex who should hear it from heavyweight cardstock.

Funerals · Pre-Need
"I didn't like you when I was alive. Please don't come."

Lock in your guest list today. Delivered at the reading of the will.

Rescindments
"Sorry, we actually don't want you to come now."

For when the invite went out before the group chat did.

Baby Showers
"A baby is coming. You are not."

Registry: your absence. Available in pink, blue, or neutral disdain.

Holidays
"Thanksgiving is cancelled. For you specifically."

Gravy for everyone else. Seasonal foil options available.

The Office Party
"Everyone's welcome. Except you, Kevin."

HR-reviewed wording. Bulk pricing for departments.

Pricing

Choose your level of closure.

Petty

$4

A digital disvite, sized for the group chat.

  • — Any template, share-ready image
  • — One (1) grievance
  • — Screenshot-proof sense of satisfaction
Start small

Spiteful

$19

A printed card that means it.

  • — Letterpress-style cotton card
  • — Lined envelope
  • — RSVP card, "Regretfully Declines" pre-checked
Get spiteful
Most cathartic

Scorched Earth

$49

Handwritten by our calligrapher. Sealed in wax.

  • — Hand-lettered letter, your words or ours
  • — Gold foil + custom wax seal
  • — Suitable-for-framing Certificate of Non-Attendance
Burn the bridge

Launching soon — prices may change.

Words from the formerly annoyed

"I sent one to my brother-in-law. Thanksgiving has never been quieter."
Denise, Ohio
"Ordered the Pre-Need for my own funeral. Worth every penny I won't need."
Walt, 81
"My ex framed it. I'm choosing to count that as a win."
Anonymous

Testimonials are satire. So is everything else on this site.

The waitlist

Be first to disvite someone.

Disvite is launching soon. Nothing's for sale just yet, so leave your email and we'll tell you the moment the stationery is ready. We won't tell anyone else. Especially not them.

Reserve your spot on the guest list. The good one.

One email when we launch. Maybe two. Never a disvite.